Sex Explained!!

Sex Education

Sex is a taboo subject in India, so what happens when an Indian boy asks his parents about Sex? Remember, silence or anger leads to more curiosity. A child is curious by nature. Good parenting means talking to your child. If parents are too afraid to talk about the responsible and biological version of sex, then the child will be more influenced by the corrupt and sensationalized version of sex. Blaming movies, society, and the internet will be of no use as you are equally guilty.

What is sex?

• It is a noun. Either of the two main categories (male and female) into which humans and most other living things are divided on the basis of their reproductive functions. Gender.
• Sexual activity (chiefly with reference to people), including specifically sexual intercourse. Lovemaking.
• The sum of the structural and functional differences by which the male and female are distinguished, or the phenomena or behavior dependent on these differences.
• The instinct or attraction drawing one sex toward another, or its manifestation in life and conduct.

The Origin:

Late 14c., "males or females collectively," from L. sexus "state of being either male or female, gender." "Commonly taken with seco as division or 'half' of the race" [Tucker], which would connect it to secare "to divide or cut" (see section). Meaning "quality of being male or female" first recorded 1520s. Meaning "sexual intercourse" first attested 1929 (in writings of D.H. Lawrence); meaning "genitalia" is attested from 1938. Sex appeal attested by 1904. (Source: Etym online)

c.1300, "kind, sort, class," from O.Fr. gendre (12c., Mod.Fr. genre), from stem of L. genus (gen. generis) "race, stock, family; kind, rank, order; species," also (male or female) "sex" (see genus) and used to translate Aristotle's Greek grammatical term genos. The grammatical sense is attested in English from late 14c.; the male-or-female sense from early 15c. As sex took on erotic qualities in 20c., gender came to be the common word used for "sex of a human being," often in feminist writing with reference to social attributes as much as biological qualities; this sense first attested 1963. Gender-bender is first attested 1980, with reference to pop star David Bowie. (Source: Etym online)

How to make sentences with the word Sex?

1. The form asks for your name, age, and sex.
2. The couple didn't know what the sex of their baby would be.
3. How do you tell the sex of a hamster?
4. Discrimination based on sex.
5. Some feel men are the more aggressive sex.
6. All he ever thinks about is sex.
7. Her mom talked to her about sex.
8. She doesn't like all the sex and violence in movies.
9. He had sex with his girlfriend.

Why do we have sex?

• "We are programmed to do so," sex therapist Richard A. Carroll, associate Northwestern University psychiatry and behavioral sciences professor says. "Asking why people have sex is akin to asking why we eat. Our brains are designed to motivate us toward that behavior."
• The idea that humans are hard-wired for sex reflects an evolutionary perspective, according to University of Hawaii psychology professor Elaine Hatfield. "Evolutionary theorists point out that a desire for sexual relations is 'wired in' in order to promote species survival," she says. "Cultural theorists tend to focus on the cultural and personal reasons people have (or avoid) sex. Cultures differ markedly in what are considered to be 'appropriate' reasons for having or avoiding sex."

Here are some of the reasons as to why do we have sex:

• Physical reasons: Pleasure, stress relief, exercise, sexual curiosity, or attraction to a person.

• Goal-based reasons: To make a baby, improve social status (for example, to become popular), or seek revenge.

• Emotional reasons: Love, commitment, or gratitude.

• Insecurity reasons: To boost self-esteem, keep a partner from seeking sex elsewhere, or feeling a sense of duty or pressure (for example, a partner insists on having sex)

Why Study Sex?

• Understanding why people seek sex is not always a simple task. Most studies have involved college undergraduates, a "sample of convenience" for university researchers but one that is often very limiting. Young men and women typically haven't been in very committed relationships and are in the process of discovering their sexuality. Their answers to "why do you have sex" are often greatly tied to the image of themselves and their social relationships, says Richard Carroll. This can change over time.
• But such knowledge can improve a couple's sex life.

• "Understanding these differences in motivations is very important. It helps us understand what's going on in the sexual relationship and treat sexual disorders. Very often, you find the source of the problem can be traced to the particular motivation," Richard Carroll says.
• If you need help, you can find a qualified sex therapist in your area.

How to have effective sex?

Sex is integral to a thriving relationship. It bonds you. It keeps you connected. Muscles weaken over time and can atrophy from neglect and this includes sex-specific muscles. Sexual confidence comes from sexual competence. By building up your skill set and your sexual stamina, you will enter the bedroom with a new sense of pride and conviction in your abilities.

What are bases in the terminology of sex?

The four bases in a relationship, like in baseball, where the partners try to get home.

Four bases of American dating:

F1 - French Kissing: First base is equivalent to French kissing, not just kissing.

F2 - Feeling: Second base is touching of private extremities and/or appendages of the partners' body.

F3 - Fellatio: Third base is oral sex.

F4 - Fuck: A home run or four bases are full on, big time sex.

Four bases of Indian dating:

It is all about matching, meeting, munching, mating...

M1 - Matching Kundli (Astrological Stars)

M2 - Meeting Family

M3 - Munching Relatives

M4 - Mating Mate

What is sex addiction?

Sex addiction can refer to a range of behaviors that are done in excess and significantly impact one’s life in a negative way. Sexual addiction is a condition in which an individual cannot manage their sexual behavior. Persistent sexual thoughts affect their ability to work, maintain relationships, and fulfill their daily activities. Other terms for sexual addiction are a sexual dependency, hypersexuality, and compulsive sexual behavior. It is also known as nymphomania in females and satyriasis in men.

Porn addiction and sex addiction are not the same disorder. Addiction to porn is considered to be a type of sex addiction and can manifest itself differently than other types of sex addiction.

Here is a link to a TEDx YouTube Video, which will effectively guide you through the process of getting out of this addiction:

There are no distinct categories, but sexual addictions can come in different forms, including addiction to:

• Pornography.
• Prostitution.
• Masturbation or fantasy.
• Sadistic or masochistic behavior.
• Exhibition/Voyeurism.
• Other excessive sexual pursuits.

A person with sexual addiction is obsessed with sex or has an abnormally intense sex drive. Their thoughts are dominated by sexual activity, to the point where this affects other activities and interactions. If these urges become uncontrollable, the person can have difficulty functioning in social situations.

In some cases, a person with a healthy and enjoyable sex life may develop an obsession. They may find themselves stimulated by acts and fantasies that most people do not consider acceptable.

Emotional Symptoms of Sex Addiction:

If you or someone you love suffers from a sex addiction, you might not have healthy boundaries. If your husband is addicted to porn or sex, you may feel alienated, isolated, depressed, angry, or humiliated and need treatment yourself. If you are addicted to sex, you might become easily involved with people sexually or emotionally regardless of how well you know them, according to Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous. Because most sex addicts fear being abandoned, they might stay in relationships that aren’t healthy, or they may jump from relationship to relationship. When alone, they might feel empty or incomplete. They might also sexualize feelings of guilt, loneliness or fear.

Physical Symptoms of Sex Addiction:

Although a sex addiction or pornography addiction can create many physical side effects, few physical symptoms of this disorder exist. However, the most common physical sex addict symptoms you might notice from having a sexual addiction is feeling immobilized due to sexual or emotional obsessions.

It can have profound psychological effects, like generating feelings of shame, inadequacy, and emotional distress. It can lead to, or stem from, comorbid psychological disorders like:

• Anxiety.
• Depression.
• Substance abuse.
• Problems related to impulse control and emotion dysregulation.
• Obsessive-Compulsive type symptoms.

What is Masturbation?

• It is a noun. The stimulation or manipulation of one's own genitals, especially to orgasm; sexual self-gratification. The stimulation, by manual or other means exclusive of coitus, of another's genitals, especially to orgasm. Excitation of one's own or another's genital organs, usually to orgasm, by manual contact or means other than sexual intercourse.

In Nutshell:

According to the definition, masturbation means giving oneself pleasure by having orgasm/s through the stimulation of sexual organs. While most of them use their hands to climax, instruments like vibrators and dildos are also used for the same purpose. These imitate the movements of the hand and provide sexual pleasure.

The Origin:

1711 (earlier as mastupration, 1620s), from French masturbation and directly from Modern Latin masturbationem (nominative masturbatio), noun of action from past participle stem of Latin masturbari "to masturbate." The long-standing speculation is that this Latin word is altered (probably by influence of turbare "to stir up") from *manstuprare, from manu, ablative of manus "hand" (see manual ) + stuprare "defile" (oneself), from stuprum "defilement, dishonor," related to stupere "to be stunned, stupefied" (see stupid ). But perhaps the first element represents an unattested *mazdo- "penis" [OED]. An earlier technical word for this was Onanism. Related: Masturbational. (Source: Merriam Webster)

How to make sentences with the word Masturbation?

1. Included are three masturbation scenes, which is two too many in any movie.
2. Indirect questions about masturbation yield contempt for even raising the subject.
3. If you believe the hype of fitness magazines and clubs, walking's appeal and benefits rank somewhere along the lines of masturbation.
4. We have already addressed the frequent allusion to adult masturbation.
5. Masturbation entered the broad catalog of 19th-century imperial hypocrisy.
6. Nobody admitted to masturbation, yet everyone carried on doing it.
7. He invented corn flakes in 1898 as part of his diet for decreasing sexual desire and masturbation.
8. She holds him to blame for his brother's masturbation, and she wants him out.
9. I became depressed and self-medicated with comic books and heavy masturbation.
10. I don't buy that anyone in their right mind would prefer masturbation over sexual intercourse with a mutual partner.

How to masturbate effectively?

• 90% of the total population does masturbation or has done it at some point in their life.

• 53% of women use vibrators while they masturbate, and 17 % of men use vibrators for solo masturbating.
• It helps our brain and body to relax – safer than tranquilizers, cheaper than alcohol and no side effects.
• It gives a degree of relief from the physical discomforts many feel during periods.

Tips to enhance your masturbation experience: (Male)

1. When the penis is in your hand, at that time if you keep some ‘ice cubes’ on your other hand then you will feel new sensations. These sensations give us pleasure that normal masturbation can’t.

Ice cubes send cooling signals to your brain and your penis sends warms signals. It produces a new type of feelings that you might not have felt ever before.

This gives you significantly more pleasure than the normal masturbation.

2. When you are near ejaculation (that is sperms are about to be sprayed out of your penis), at that instant leave the penis and put your hands behind your head and think about different things, anything apart from masturbation.

Repeat it as many times as you can maximum being 4 to 5 times. After, the fourth or fifth attempt, when you ejaculate you will feel a lot better and will experience a pleasure that you had never felt before.

3. Take a soft towel and plunge it into lukewarm water. Once you are done with that, squeeze the towel until it is soaked up to the point that water does not drip. Start your masturbation by holding the towel in the hand with which you masturbate. This method will make you feel that you are having sex. That is quite a lot of pleasure and rush in adrenaline.

4. Using a plastic bag waxed with Vaseline in it, when placed on the penis before masturbation shall give you a feeling of euphoria. As this method of masturbation will make you feel that you are actually penetrating it into a vagina. Moreover, sperms will not spread over the floor thus saving your cleaning time. This gives helps you attain the mental satisfaction that you desire.

Masturbation is a normal sexual behavior, but, like any other behavior, when over practiced it, it can lead to psychological and physiological imbalances and side effects.

Effects of over – masturbating:

• Over – masturbation would be two or more times a day. Several doctors recommend keeping masturbation frequency down to only two to three times a week.
• Internal body temperature increases with masturbation. That gives the reason as to why you feel heated up and sweaty after masturbation. Moreover, when a person ejaculates, a “complex movement” of absorption takes place, by an effect of the emptiness, the seminal vesicle tries to fill, and the penis, which is later absorbed from the seminal vesicle to the lymphatic system, arriving at the brain, absorbs humid air. This produces a thermal shock and cold space between the cerebral neurons and this affects cerebral, physical and nervous normality, in the brain.
• Sperms also contain DNA, which is a carrier of the heredity genetic code, and RNA which contains enzymes, proteins, glycosides, lecithin, calcium, phosphorous, biological salts, and testosterone. When ejaculation is carried out a very small percentage of these components, are eliminated from the body. Loss of excessive amounts of calcium can cause fatigue and pain in bones, and you should replenish the minerals and nutrients that are lost during the ejaculation. This can be achieved by either following diet having rich amounts of these minerals or through supplementations (to be avoided).
• Over-ejaculation stimulates parasympathetic nerve functions, which results in the overproduction of sex hormones: DHT, acetylcholine, dopamine, and serotonin. Abnormally high levels of sex hormones can cause your brain and adrenal glands to perform excessive changes in the body chemistry, with bad side effects to your health. One of the side effects of over masturbation is hair loss.

Decrease masturbation to a maximum of three times a week!

• You may even experience lack of concentration in your work and difficulty in memorizing things due to over masturbation, which is supposedly a clear sign of being over drained of acetylcholine. It may even lead to sleeping disorders, anxiety, stress, and depression.
• Avoid watching pornographic films to masturbate as this might lead to reduced interest in sex and over – expectations from your partner leading to relationship crisis.

To know how to reignite love and lust in your relationship click here.

http://basicconceptuality.blogspot.com/2016/06/when-all-that-you-need-is-love_3.html

Myths about Masturbation:

1. Myth 1: Masturbation makes you blind. False.
2. Myth 2: Masturbation leads to erectile dysfunction. False. (Just don’t overdo it.)
3. Myth 3: You shouldn’t masturbate when you are in a relationship. I would say go explore yourself and let your partner know your hot spots. Keep it, alive guys, it is not you cheating on your partner.
4. Myth 4: Masturbation leads to bad health. False. It rather relaxes you and clears out the old sperms from your testicles to make space for the new healthy ones. Thus, protecting your prostate.
5. Myth 5: You will grow hair on your palm. False.

Here is a TEDx YouTube Video that covers this topic completely (General):

And this is for all the beautiful ladies out there: (Do watch it. Do explore yourself.)

And a bonus clip too: 

So as now it is clear that masturbation does not lead to infertility then what does lead to it and “How to check infertility in men?”

• To conceive a child, it is imperative that both partners are healthy and virile. However, if you have tried to conceive for over 12 months without any success it is advised that you get yourself checked. It is better to be ascertaining that your partner and you are fertile enough to conceive.
• Signs that you should note to avoid or eradicated infertility by consulting your doctor:
• Pain and swelling in your testicles. Always check the health of your testicles, check for any swelling of the testicles or veins around it because this could be an indicator of varicocele (do not jump to conclusions before consulting your doctor. This is just one of the many symptoms of having such a condition). This condition is related to the enlargements of veins just like the ones that you see in the varicose vein. This abnormal enlargement leads to a lowered sperm count and subsequently hampering the delivery of the sperms. If the pain is too acute, you should consult your doctor for details.
• Poor sense of smell might not be a full proof indicator of infertility nevertheless, it might be one of the reasons as this condition is a disorder that is passed genetically and is known as Kallman’s Syndrome. It is a very rare disorder wherein your puberty never took off over the years. In this condition, you are unable to discern different aromas, which leads to the malfunction of testicles and erectile dysfunction. It also leads to lowered sex drive.
• Difficulty in ejaculation is a common sign of infertility in men, and it is referred to as ejaculation disorder. In this condition, you either ejaculate in fits and starts, or very low amounts of sperm come out when you do. It is a grave cause for concern. Sometimes retrograde ejaculation could be a cause for this great difficulty in ejaculation as it draws the semen backward to the bladder rather than out of it.
• Lower sperm count is amongst the sure shot sign of infertility in men because if the sperms are not sufficient enough it will not help the egg to fertilize into an embryo. You can have a sperm count test to ensure that your sperm count is not poor. Typically, if the sperm count is less than fifteen million sperms per milliliter of semen then it is a sign of infertility. A healthy sperm count ranges between 20 to 150 million sperms per milliliter of semen.  
• If your testicles are smaller than the usual, then it would be a sign of infertility too. This is a rare condition called the Klinefelter’s Syndrome.
• Low sex drive also concludes to be a sign of infertility as you don’t crave to be in intimacy with your partner to carry out fornication. As it indicates the reduced formation of testosterone.
•  If you are growing breast then it is undauntedly a clear sign of infertility. Such a condition is called Gynecomastia.

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